Everybody fails. But you can convert failure into success in these easy steps.

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Friday — December 15, 2017

By:Study Abroad

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We all go through failure during different stages of life. As everything casts its effects whether positive or negative like an advice, medicine, product or weather etc. Similarly failure casts its effects on a person too. It depends totally on the person who has gone through failure to take it as a push and look at the other opportunities or sink into a pool of negative thoughts and hopelessness.

Failure improves your talent

Learning from your failure is basically a skill that every person should develop to tackle the negativity and to kill pessimism. Here we all will learn the strategies to deal with failure and the lessons it teaches to us. Failure always keeps a mysterious message in it which we don’t focus on because we feel embarrass, hopeless, frustrated, demoralized and disappointed. We can’t handle the embarrassment and we never learn to deal with it. We must go through the tactics to learn the lesson hidden in our failure to reach our goal and to have a healthy mental approach towards life.

Here are some tips which will surely compel you to value your failure as you value your success.

Admit your fault

This is one of the finest strategy to handle failure that you must not blame others and admit the mistake from your end. Researches have shown that if we stop the blame game and accept our fault we can do better next time as it enhances our confidence and psycologically makes us responsible.

For example if you do an experiment, a researchwork or any task and don’t get the expected results in the end but you get so many information, ideas and learn new things then you must believe that it was praiseworthy and not blameworthy. Blaming can affect a person’s performance ruthlessly but if you realize how much you have learnt from it you will feel boosted and enthusiastic.
Revise your plan and its execution
You must give a quality time to revise the plan or strategy you have made to win your goal or to complete your project. Focus on your weaknesses in the last plan you followed and got fail. While making a strong plan you must count the problems and unexpected hurdles you will be having in achieving your goal and you must have a backup or hold over to deal with the surprising circumstances. Reevaluating your strategy will definitely lessen the chances of failure.

One more thing you must do is, ask yourself the reason of your failure. Realize the point where you lost hope, motivation, confidence and lost control over it. Consistency is a lead to success and our efforts are usually derailed by external conditions. Be more energetic, focused and active in your second attempt.

Lessons we learn from failure
- Failure boosts our skills and makes us strong. We can stop tracking the method which does not lead to success. Getting failed again and again helps us in resetting our goal. So, failure is positive.
- Failure opens up the door of other opportunities. When you get fail you take chances and make new attempts and succeed finally.
- Failure redefines your values and priorities. By failure you learn what things need to be focused and are important. Passing the crucial stage of redefining and reshaping your preferences helps in building a strong character.
- Failure shatters the ego and teaches the importance of other things in life like the love of your family, blessings you have given by GOD and beauty of life. You learn to let go the things and feel gentle and more passionate.
- Failure notifies you about your real friends who don’t leave you when you fall down.